夜

凌晨三点
的确感觉到累了
可还是顽固的不肯乖乖的睡下

赌气吗
也许是吧

心情郁闷
怎样好呢

是你的诅咒灵验了吗?
该不会是来个早期更年期还是忧郁症吧?

呸 呸 呸
大吉利事 反弹不回头

还是觉得应该对自己好点
去睡吧
晚安
希望来个美梦
最好帅哥之类的吧.. 嘻嘻 ^^

一通电话.

还没睡的夜
用了睡不着的借口在等待他的来电
等待中 电话响了
并不是期待中的他
眼神出现了失望

接起电话
电话的那头竟然也是我曾经何时在等待过的一个人
听到他的声音 有点愣住了
是好久没有联络的关系吗?
竟然用了最笨拙的口吃方式问候了对方

曾经话题不断的我们
现在却出现了冷场的对话
觉得好尴尬
竟然不知要说些什么好

普通的问候 给个祝福对方 加上一句晚安 就这样盖上了电话
有少少的不舍得

知道他的来电是因为想知道我的近况
知道他的来电是因为对我的想念
知道他还是对我有着依依不舍
知道他想试探我和我的他是否还存在

也知道他想与我来搞个暧昧什么的....
可是对不起
我并不想要

允许你下次想念我时 再给我来电
但是请不要期待我会因为你的来电而有更近一步的发展

也要谢谢你 让我知道他的重要
因为当我在等待他的来电同时
发现有个人却在另一边想念着我

而我
还是会继续等着我的他

十一月到现在的我

好久好久没有更新我的部落格了...
好多的心情也没有好好的记下...

一十月的生活,
过得好忙...
把四份的报告赶完之余,还要准备期中考...
忙到没有时间与朋友见面,
忙到平时的课业也来不急好好的温习...

第一次, 跟班上的同学为了一份报告,赶得通宵达旦...
在极少的睡眠时间下完成一份最具有压力性的报告....
而我,也是第一次承受不了压力而崩溃...T.T
当然到最后,也因为大家的付出,得到了最满意的成果...
被讲师称赞与认同的我们,至少觉得被肯定与值得..
除此,
也因为跟班上的几位朋友共度了几个良宵,
关系也变得好好..^^

在这段忙碌的期间,
让我错过了跟朋友的聚会...
遗憾,
竟然无法与两位很好很好的朋友庆祝他们的生日..
真的真的很抱歉... >.<
对不起.

十二月的我,
开始轻松了...
当然也要准备大考的来临..
在开始准备之前,
决定先让自己休息一星期...

在这几天, 跟我的他去了健身中心..
发现了,
原来要减重,真的很辛苦...
哎,还是算了吧...@.@
哈哈...

过几天,圣诞节要到了...
好象也没有特别的约会和节目...
而我的他,
也因为工作所以没的庆祝咯...
辛苦了..^^

生活好象过得好匆忙,
无法让我好好的享受当中的点点滴滴...
很多的事情,也因为时间改变了不少...
就好象:
与她们的空间,好像拉得越来越远,见面时,发现出现了薄膜...有点插不进她们的话题...希望是我的敏感吧...
与她约了好多好多次,可就还是有很多的理由而无法见面..
与现在的她们相处的很好..至少让我有上课的动力...
而最后的
与我的他,关系还是在提温中...曾经是不同生活方式的两个人,开始慢慢的配合与体谅对方...
虽然有时真的会有不能理解的事情,可是都尽量的适应式的容入他的生活...
抱歉不理智与野蛮的态度,还有不曾向你提过想要放弃的念头....
一起度过了快要半年的时间,都充满了快乐与幸福..谢谢对我的好...muaksss..^^

Friday+Saturday~~

FRIDAY~

Wake up early in the morning....

Did not wash my face and I ard sit infront my pc...

Access into college website and log in to my exam result with my quiver hand...

Oh no!!!!

my heart is beating so fast...

while waiting the page loading ....

Uueehhh...

is coming out!!!

is coming out!!!!

Pip Pop Pip Pop Pip Pop

I can heard my heartbeat!!!

Deng~ deng~ deng~ deng~

YES!!!!! PASS ALL!!!

and the result is not bad leh!!!!

Unexpected!!!

woohoo....

Phew~~

Relax....

and thanks God...

love u..muackssss....

SATURDAY~

Wake up early in the morning also...

Have a date with my friend to take our breakfast...

then keep 38..38...

After that,

go find my boy....

Firstly,

we go 1u ..

he wants to buy his "clubbing" tickets...

Lolz...

Then,

after buy the tickets..

we go The Curve to have our lunch...

Decided having our meal at KIMGARY ..^^

as an encouragement for my result..

muahahhaha!!!

On the way...

we keep arguing about the name of the building..

isit call IKEA or IKANO...

*so lame*

At the end...

the answer is clear..both of us are correct..

haha

so "gao xiu"....LOLz

It is very crowded over there cos of public holiday+ weekend...

and is so difficult to find a parking man!!!

Aikssss....

But

Finally...

We also finish our abundant lunch over there....keke..

and have a walk as an exercise after having a full lunch + buy some cloth too.....=p

Finish lunch + shopping..

We still have thing to do leh!!!

Wat a busy day...lolz...

We wanna go for haircut together...

So go the saloon that our friend working de..

and let him to cut our hair.....

Wooiiiyoooo.............

Mr.pierre Goh have a new hair style leh...

cut his hair until sooo short........

looks fresh and young le..

wahahhaaa..not bad... =]

And

Ms.dianni juz have a little cut only...

Make my hair looks "flimsy" abit nia.... : )

AFter a long haircut + chatting

is time "balik rumah" lor...

and Mr.Goh need go to work also....

so tired de Pity man..

hahha..

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Come !!! Come !!! Come!!!

I show some pics here...

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This is my new hair cut... I think nothing change much...and this is the shirt that MR.Goh bought for me 1... =p

And this shirt also bought by him...

Darhh~~ Darhh~~ This is Mr.Goh new hair style...short and fresh...Nice!!!! =p

INSOMNIA

Now the time is 2:10am..
I'm still sitting infront the pc...
keep writting my blog....

My fren ask me:
"u are not tired?"
"I'm tired, but cant sleep,and my brain keep running..non stop" ,I answered..

Tomorrow,
nono...
it should be today ard..and still left few hour...
my exam result will be release...
Im very worrying about that..
It makes me cant get sleep man!!!!

Many things come out from my brain..
I cant stop thinking about it...
if i fail on my subject..
i think i will forgone to take part in my internship trainning....
besides, it also make my life hard too...

Haizzz...
after few hour..
everything will be clear..
At the end,
i juz wanna say...
God..
pls bless me ..
pls let me pass for my subject....
Please!!!!!!!!

胡言乱语

最近这几天，都一直有想念的感觉。


是因为十月的关系吗？



让我有冲动的想问下近况。



别来无恙吧？



因为完全得不到消息而开始在关心吗？


曾经有几个在十月的晚上，想了好多好多。


没有后悔，可是就是有失落感…


可能因为在短暂的时间里，拥有了很多东西
而开始对现在的感情产生了害怕失去的感觉…


曾经怀疑现在得到的听到的真的能信任吗？


很害怕现在约好的，承诺的，象之前那样都没实现到。


原来说就是真的那么容易，而做真的那么难。


而现在的我希望有个可以看透未来的镜子。


想分辨三个字“我爱你”是从心讲还是就只是一种安慰的话。


是我想太多，还是把自己搞混乱呢？



有时会过分的紧张，过分的不信任，过分的怀疑，过分的心里不平衡。



是因为决定停止寻找,确定现在的...

所以都会一直在控制自己的过分，因为太了解他需要些什么。



p/s：过度期又出现了吗?

头脑想了很多乱七八糟的，有的没的,呜哩嘛碴的....lolz

A MARRIAGE's DREAMS

Recently heard a friend (actually do not really know her) is getting marriage…
After view her marriage photo and video…

Oh My God!!! My mind has been affected !!!



Quite free and quite boring de me keep thinking about my marriage man!!!

Oshhhh!!!

Keep thinking...

keep thinking...

and

keep thinking.....



-> When will I get marry?

I think 25 & 26 is the age that suitable for marriage ... So, 5 or 6 years more to

wait..LOlz



-> Where to hold our wedding dinner?

He said he wants a wedding dinner that can hold in a ship or in a special places.. So am I...

This also what i wants too...^_^

Besides, I also want to create a nice video with a significant song for us that

can show im my wedding dinner....hehe...



-> Where are we going for honeymoon?

I wish to go Maldives island...what a romantic place..XD



-> What kind of house we going to stay?

I hope that can have a quite big house that can fit in our family...Then we no need rush here and there to visit our family and easy to take care them too...LOLZ

P/S: as he knows, i love my family very much.... :)



-> Will I be a housewife?

I think nope!!! I wish to have my own life although already get marriage ... I will continue my work, by the way, I also will cook and take care him too.. =p

I'm good wife, i think..........keke!!!



Oh No!!! there are still a lots of question in my mind leh !!!
Still cant stop thinking of it !!!!


Arhh...I look like a gal who cant waiting for marriage leh!!! >.<
Stop thinking le!!! Dianni!!!

Hmmm.....

Is time to "wake up"...

Still have long way to go in "our" life....

And now ,

I should concentrate in my studies... =)

恋爱中场休息

恋爱有时像球赛一样,需要中场休息的....

两个人相爱了一段时间,不是太累,便是太闷...

又有时觉得两个角色被设定了,一方强势,另一方弱势,不终止一段时间,就会成为永久关系....

恋爱中场休息并不容易...

一方提出,另一放未必会同意....

他为何要暂停一下?

是否代表分手?

或者想趁机展开另一段恋爱?

基于不蚀底的立场,在对方提出:" 不如我们暂时冷静一下" 时,多半会遭到反对....

只有反对,才会让对方露出马脚...他愈紧张,代表背后愈有不可告人的秘密...

其实内心也真想休息一下的...但对方不肯得逞...

令双方处于对抗状态．．．

在很少的机会下,一方要求暂停，另一方会立即说好的．．．

除非两人在外都有其他暧昧关系.．．

中场休息了,又可以做些什么?

到底需要休息多久?

大多数人在休息之后,会尝试另外一段关系,测试一下是否其他人比他更适合自己...

休息初期,

心里会记挂着对方...

见面又烦,

不见面又挂念..

就是这样矛盾.....

像戒毒一样,

过了头几个星期,

发觉生活中没有着这个人并没有太大的问题...

中场休息时间,

不知不觉间延长.....

习惯没有他..习惯有他..都是时间在作怪...

他变得愈来愈不重要...

直到遇上比他更糟的另一个他...

有过比他更差的关系...

如果他也遇到同样如此的话...

下半场便可以继续.....

SHIMAN's 21st BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION

28/09/09

CRABS 的聚会 + 提前庆祝MANMAN 的生日......

首先,

我们去neway唱k....

足足唱了6个钟多叻...声音都快哑了.... =p

yeah!!!

5 of us..

cheer!!!!

mimi..nini..manman

过后,

我们就去吃THAI FOOD 咯....

那个manman开心到..........

因为tomyam是她的最爱......^^

Birthday girl with her coconut...^^

We bought for her de SECRET RECIPE cakes.... YUMMY!!!

Happy Birthday 2 u~ happy birthday 2 u~ happy birthday 2 manman ~ happy birthday 2 u~~

Make a wish~~

REAdy to pick up the candle..... =p

Finally....done....yeah!!!! keke.....

Great!!! She looks so happy ..... : )

Smile!!!

^_^...

Cheers ....sweeties......

Drinks.....babe!!!!

Friends 4ever!!!! Muakssss

P/s: Really have a nice day with my buddies...

love them so much..........

&

Happy Birthday ...manman..

Wish u happy always ....

心情.

今天,

好多话想说，但不知该如何开口；

好多话想写，但不知该从何下笔。

每次别人不开心，其他人都会安慰说，

不要不开心啦~ 乐观点啦~ 想开点啦~

欣赏并认同这张图片里的文字...

别人看不穿你心里的伤悲，

所以只有自己最了解自己想的是什么..

.我们每天都重复做着一些同样的事，

唯一不一样的就是我们的心情，

如果每天都是嘻嘻哈哈

，那真的是值得庆幸的吗？

很多事情是要讲求TIMING的，

一旦错过的，

就算后悔也于事无补。

每件事都会有结束的一天，

分别只是过程长或短，

这件事对你的影响有多深...

如果人的回忆可以像电脑的记忆体那该有多好，

那么我们就可以选择性保留或删除我们脑中的回忆。

有些我们想要忘记的回忆，

偏偏永远都忘不了，

有些我们想要紧紧记住的，

却越来越模糊...

这也是为什么我们往往都会【追忆】

雨天的感伤，

谁能了解呢？

想念总会被收在内心最深处，

但是有些时候，

有些人，

有些事是可以把这一份想念再次浮现在你心上...

讨厌候补，

不被重视的感觉很糟吧！

【己所不欲，勿施于人】

既然自己不喜欢被别人当作候补，

所以我也绝不会把任何人当候补。
我选择放弃不代表我选择忘记。

LOVE & MARRIAGE

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one...

But may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "...this is love... You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person...."

"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back.


But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."


The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.


The teacher told him, "This time you bring back a corn.... You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... This is marriage.

我怎么了吗?

这一段时间..
我是真的选择了..答案是确定的..而你们就是在否定...
以前的不代表是现在..请不要放你们recency perception好吗?

"为什么就那么坚持"
"因为我觉得我选择对了,我该坚持"

"以后任何事发生,不要爱的要生要死"
"我从来不会为爱要生要死,这不是我会做的行为"

"他的朋友是那样子,不必说他也是同类."
"如果是同类,我当然不会选择,既然我选了,就证明他不同"

"或许以后出来工作, 可以遇到更好的"
"以后的以后再说,要遇到始终都会出现"

"现在的人很会诈骗,你会看不清楚"
"我是"现在"的人,看得比你们"以前"的人更清楚..,看得清楚未必=永远"

"之前都没有结果,为什么还不清楚"
"难道我的未来就因之前而停止?"

"自己选择的,后果自负,别丢我面子"
"到最后还不是为了面子,我没有后悔,如果是错路,我有能力回头"

幸福是一种自己给自己的定义
只要自己觉得幸福就是幸福
我没有做错吧?
至少我觉得没有...
未来
没有人会知道发生什么事..
而我会努力证明我的未来是幸福的..
当我愿意投资下去,
就证明我已确定
愿意承受和接受
以后会带来利润或是损失的结果...

*看了这些..不要问发生什么事...不要问怎么了..
放在这的past tense..不重要..
而我只是需要抒发....*

RECENTLY

考试期间~~
身心被撕的支离破碎的一个学期。。。
考试。。考试考试。。考试真的拿了我的命。
我知道我明白我了解，考试是读书的过程...
这2个星期的考试，痛苦。。。。。
睡不好吃不安。。。一天读15个小时以上的书。

压力...前所未有的压力...
之前的考试都未曾那么没信心...
是因为没有了一班好友一起奋斗的精神...
还是被身边出现好多高手而力不从心呢?
是借口吗?
不知道....

那么多的想法..
最后还是把要背的..要读的..
全部吞进肚里...考试时再呕完出来...
无意外的话..应该可以及格的吧...
有意外的话.........唉.......不敢想.....

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考试完毕~~
战斗终于完毕...
生理和心理的石头都消失了...
假期开始...
在打算怎样跟mr.P.度过.... :)

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一个好久没去过的地方~~
The Mines..
Mr.P 和我决定"重游"只有少许童年回忆的地方...
两个字..>>>失望啦..
shopping fair还算不错...(至少看到有人)
wonderland真的令人失望到..............
差不多全部的主题公园都关了...
原因是在renew 中.....lolz
唯一能进的地方就只有animal park...
动物的种类＞＞十只手指可以数完.．．．
竟然还收费十五块!!! 真的有够vampire!!!
里面什么不多．．鸡最多咯．..^^
唉．．．
虽然真的失望＋累.．．
可是因为mr.P 的陪伴．．令这次的行程加分啦．．．
把Mr.p搞的精疲力尽．．晚上还要工作叻．．真的够２４５了....

MEMORIES

Tonight..
Have a long chat with a person..
Duno when i start to accept have a communication with that person...
I admit..
i really think that i wont talk and contact with that person anymore..
I admit..
i really upset on that person deeply...
evenmore i try to escape everything about that person...
But in the end ..
Times will let u put down and forget everything...

Tonight..
seem like call back everything for the pass
Sweet dreams and Nightmare for the pass...
Wanna try to ask many question to that person..
Question that hide long time ago and i never dare to ask...
maybe that person also never dare to answer that question too....

I know that person still remember my habit...
I know that person try to apologise ..
I know that person try to point out its fault..
yea!!...and I also mention to that person ...which said that person is bad .
That person agree too...
And i know that person try to treat me good , care on me as compensate...

If u ask me...
do u still hate that person?? ..like that person??..or care on that person anymore???
My answer is I DUNNO
when i think of nightmare..i still feeling upset..
when i think of sweet dreams ..thats juz like a dreams...wont comes true..

For me
Just a memories....

BILI BALA BILI BALA ( part 2)

Busy week ~
make me tension..stressful..sleepless...anxious..and breathless..
Many things are not going well..
make all the way difficulty..
I'm Exhausted on it!!!
Although everything seem like ard end up..
But the most important thing is coming soon...
Arhhh!!! Gimme a break !!!

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A "cold" day & A blackout night
A big contrast over my physically and mentally

I know you are worries ...
so, i try to put <do not disturb> on you...
whatever....
tried control myself cos i knw i should custom on this.

You say you are busy..
is ok ..
you say you be with friend...until midnight...
i cut off the conversation..
whatever..
maybe u should relax...

I tried to get sleep early..very early...
coz it is blackout...
For me
A soundless night = sleepless night...

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When i always start my word with "whatever"?
after know you ba...
Always think that we ard go through a long way...
actually is nothing...
still have many thing need us to experience..rite?
suddenly feel flaccidity...*_*

Huh~~
whatever lar...
Forget about it...
Just BiLI BaLA to myself.... =)

Quiz 2- A real of me

You've got great self-confidence and you're full of charm. Most guys who get to know you will be attracted to you. You are far from sweet and proper; your intriguing personality fascinates them. Most guys find it easy to fall for a girl like you.

You really care about other people's feelings and are quite serious about the issues that affect your life. You are sincere, and your concern for the well-being of others makes many people want to be your friend.

You are a bright, cheerful and bubbly person. You are thoughtful and considerate, and like to have fun. Everybody feels comfortable around you because of your pleasant nature. When you walk into a room, people's eyes are likely to be drawn to you because of your charm.

Guys see you as being a thinker and a careful person. They will be really attracted to this quality in you, but you need to learn to speak your mind, otherwise people will find you too shy and quiet. Learn to relax and lighten up--it's okay to have fun sometimes. When you learn to develop your fun-loving side, guys are going to flock to your side.

Your boyfriend believes that you are a strong and independent person. Your confidence and cheerfulness make you an attractive person to be around, but sometimes you need to pay more attention to what other people, including your boyfriend, are thinking.

P/S:Is it true???......@_@
I have no idea on it......

Its ME-nini(dianni)

Your view on yourself:
You are intelligent, honest and sweet. You are friendly to everybody and don't like conflict. Because you're so cheerful and fun people are naturally attracted to you and like to talk to you.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.

The seriousness of your love:
Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.

Your views on education:
You may not like to study but you have many practical ideas. You listen to your own instincts and tend to follow your heart, so you will probably end up with an unusual job.

The right job for you:
You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:
You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.

Who is your true self:
You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

P/S: Goshhhh... this is from QUIZ 1....its so accurate....even me also cannot describe myself with so detail lor...lolx...great...so ...this is what about me.....XD

My diploma convocation ceremony

Last saturday was my diploma graduation convo ceremony...

Everyone was so excited!!!

coz we finally GRADUATE !!!! XD...

2 years diploma life....

pass through with happiness...sadness..craziness....anxiousness..tensionless...

and this is the moment that recognize us as end of our diploma life...

A recognization of our studies...

that is what we are hoping to achieve....

Congratulation to myself and also all my friends.....Hoorayy....^_^

Graduate le!!! Lets gambateh for advanced looo......

Jom!!!...let's look the pics ------>

This flower szekian bought for me 1 ..heheh..like it so much..coz it is light blue...*my favourite colour* thanks....

Feel boring in the hall....so SS take pics....

My parents

My sis and I

My family

My Relative

My relative and mummy's friend....
*guess what i found in this pic???? all same series colour of shirt...all "ang ang"..XD..hahaha*

Convo only...not CNY....LOLX

"Big gather pic"

*smile*

Linlin....mami...mimi...nini

where is manman and sisi ????

Lin's parents and nini

mami and nini

A story about HE and SHE

He is waiting for my new post..

and HE want me write something about he and me de story...

If not, HE will bite me...>_<
hahha...

Emmm...still thinking how to start it....

Lets start with question and answer :

How we knw each other?

We started knew each other is from MSN...

No!!No!!

i thinks is start with friendster....

then we have a long chat in MSN...

p/s: actually we are in same secondary school...but never meet before...although we are in the same class in form 1...but i really dun hv impression on him...that's oso same to him...LOLX

How about our dates ?

Its at YAKI-YAKI....^^

actually we should be go with another guy 1..unfortunetely, that guy needs to work ...so cant go for it...

But cant expect that he din cancel the date...

so..juz left me and him having lunch at yaki-yaki...

dunno whether it is a trap???...hehe

After that...

we also have meet once a week or few week.

Feel great when chatting with him

we get to know each other well...

**********************************************************************

Finally...

Few month later..

we admit our feeling ....

Everything happening likes a dreams...

Unbelievable...

Its that call a fate???

I duno...

Maybe it is.......

*******************************************************************

In this short period...

i keep asking myself..

am i doing a right decison...

And what he did before

am i really dun care or mind on it....

actually i care...

i scared i have a wrong decision

i scared i start with a wrong person and i realise it when it is too late....

i scared it will repeat what happen in my last relation..

but i let myself forget all these question and puzzle..

Try to give a chance to him and myself....

and i pray hard...

hope this is my right decision....

and we can pass through all crisis in our life...

In the end...

A small remind to him :

Treat me as well as u can!!...

Fulfill all ur promises!!...

pray hard for our relationship!!..

and kick away all ur butterfly!!!

So...

my readers and my "fans" will be my witness..

if U treat me no good enuff...

I will pull out all the hair on ur body and all the ant will going to bite u...

XD....Good luck!!!

muahahhaha.....

Let me show some sweetest thing that he do for me...

The gift that he gv me for my graduation..



A birthday present from him!!!

A flower from him....why gv me flower??? wanna ask him le...XD

actually wanna ask what is the fruit is it??? make me feel like wanna bite it...hahaha

男人会珍惜的7种女人.

1. 自重自爱的女人。在现在如此快节奏的时代，一夜情已经被当成一种另类的时尚。人们到底要求的是什么，仅仅是生理的需求吗？人做为比动物高一等级的生物，不应该随着时代的发展却进化到如此的地步。一个好的女人在遇到自己喜欢的男人时，应该是先相处、了解对方是否合适自己以后，随着感情的加深而顺其自然的发生的。一个随随便便就和男人上床的女人，试问男人们，这样的女人你们敢娶回家吗？所以当你们遇到自重自爱的女人时应该好好的把握，比竟这样的女人已经太少了。

2. 有责任感的女人。很多女人是为了权，为了利，为了钱，为了势和男人在一起的。她们只不过把感情和肉体当做交换自己想得到的一种工具而已。这样的女人今天为了某些东西和你在一起，那么改天也会为了得到其他的东西而离开你的。如此不负责任的女人你敢要吗？好女人应该是对自己对别人都有责任心的，在金钱面前有自控能力。

3. 有思想的女人。现代社会压力越来越大，男人在外打拼其实已经承受了很多很大的压力。一个有思想的女人应该能为男人分担一些压力，至少可以有自己的事业和人生价值，并 不是一味的依附于男人。女人会在社会生活里和压力里学到很多东西，使自己历练的越来越成熟，有韵味，也更坚强和勇敢。有思想的女人在金钱面前有自控能力， 是的谁不爱钱呀，可是并不是有了钱就有了一切，你能买到真爱吗？感情和婚姻如果只是建立在金钱上靠的住吗？当富贵不在的时候她也就随之而去了。所以有思想的女人明白自己要的是什么，而不是一味的追逐名利和金钱。

4. 疼爱男人也疼爱自己的女人。不会疼爱自己的女人，男人也不会疼爱你的。很多女人在爱情中为了所爱的人付出很多很多，却忽视了自己的存在，到头了却换来男人的离弃。从某种角度上来说男人的变心是女人给惯出来的。男人永远是充满好奇的，再多的爱到最后男人只会觉得是应该的，时间久了都不会珍惜的。所以聪明的女人是先疼爱自己，爱惜自己的身体，疼爱自己容貌，时时更新变化自己的外在，让男人对自己一直感兴趣。遇到这样的女人，男人想不疼都不行。

5. 有自己的空间，也给男人足够空间的女人。这样的女人有自己的朋友，当不开心的时候可以和朋友倾诉，不一定要把自己的烦恼都抛给自己的另一半，正所谓旁观者清。也有自己的异性好友，但是她非常清楚和他的关系，不需要你的担心，她会很清楚的把握界限的。她会给你足够的空间，你有你的自由，她信任你。在事业上支持你。

6. 上得厅堂，下得厨房。虽然是老调重谈了，可是不管社会如何的发展，男人们还是希望自己的老婆在外是光鲜亮丽的，回到家后就有一桌可口的饭菜。但是对于女人来说要做到这一点实在是很不容易的。所以女人们加油吧！这样的女人很关心你，照顾你。当然在外的时候也会给足你面子。

7. 用心爱你的女人.她不一定是最漂亮的女人，不一定是最有气质的，不一定是最聪明的，但他一定是最爱你的。她会在你生病的时候守侯照顾你；在你烦恼时听你发泄抱怨，给你鼓励；在你需要她的时候给你无私的关怀，和最大的帮助。也许她有一点唠叨，可那是因为爱你！

HARRY POTTER AND THE HALF-BLOOD PRINCE

yeah!! I watched HARRY POTTER today...

I have waiting this 6th episode for long time....

BUT quite dissapointed on this time...

It is a 2 hour and 32 minute long show movie..

boring and no point for the story....

Just for find out whose the Half-Blood Prince...

and the climax just simply touch on the story...

Dumbledore was dead....

haih~what a sad story....and nobody find out how he was dead...lolx...

furthermore....At the end of the story...there was no conclusion too...

make both of us felt bored and sleepy in the cinema....

and he look so blur when finished the movie...hahhaha

Pity man...accompany me watched this bored movie and make him so tired...muahaha...

Erhhh...is time to rush on my assignment and homework...

*_*..no mood doing it coz my heart is flying to another places...hehehhe..

If u see my heart..help me catch it yarr..and return back to me plssssss.....XD

不帮她拎手袋

看见一对长得不错的情侣..
本来很好看的,但是女孩两手空空,她的手袋却挂在男孩的肩膀上....
就在那一刹那,得分全失了!!!
真的差点忍不住跟那男孩说,把手袋还给她!!!
男人可以帮女人拿一切东西,这都是风度...
可是除了手袋!!
看见女人提着一个很沉重的箱子,你应该帮她拿...
看见女人拿着两本书,在需要时,你也可以帮她拿...
女人穿高根鞋,踩断了鞋跟,扭了脚...虽然异相,K 型了点,但那对鞋,你也应该帮她挽....
除了手袋!!
当一个男人帮女人拿了手袋后,顿时把女人的风韵变走....同时把男人变的不象一个男人...
哎...但现在好多男人不明白这点...
拍拖的时候,女人两手甩甩,那个本来帮她提升风韵的手袋, 却吊儿郎当,娘娘的挂在男人的肩膀上.... >_<
那种感觉,就象一个两手空空的男人,身边的女人却提着一个大皮箱....
搞的男不象男,女不象女了....
如果真心喜欢你的男人,不要让他帮你拎手袋....
如果真心喜欢你的女人,不要帮她拎手袋...... XD

生活篇之五~就是那么简单....

今天上完课....

与朋友..闲聊了一遍...迟了回家...

就是因为迟了的关系吗???

走着去拿车的路途中...

遇见了他..

他正面的走着过来..

大声的说了句" HAlo"..

而我, 就回以一个微笑....

原来就是那么的简单....

Phewww~~

没有告诉你这些, 因为今天的我们无语....

不知怎说起...抱歉...